A place to share things of benefit to Seekers as we travel through this world. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: "What have I to do with this world? There is no comparison between me and this world, except to a rider who stops for shade under a tree and then goes on leaving it behind."
Monday, March 23, 2009
Thoughts on the solar anniversary of my entry into this world...
How many a blessing that Merciful Lord has bestowed on this unworthy servant? How many a second chance has He provided? How much Love has He poured forth out of nothing, but His Pure Bounty and Largess?
Alhamdulillah.
The other day I spoke to my beloved sister on the Path of God and she mentioned that her family celebrates birthdays by getting together and reciting surah waqiyah and singing anasheeds. How mubarak a way of showing gratitude for life! May we all implement this blessed way, and on our birthdays, recite in praise of the Merciful Lord Who has bestowed us with life so that we may draw closer to Him.
Allahu Akbar!
Friday, March 06, 2009
Alhamdulillah, it's almost here...!
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
The Road Not Taken - Robert Frost

Then took the other, as just as fair
And both that morning equally lay
I shall be telling this with a sigh
The Fear of God - Robert Frost
The Fear of God
If you should rise from Nowhere up to Somewhere,
From being No one up to being Someone,
Be sure to keep repeating to yourself
You owe it to an arbitrary god
Whose mercy to you rather than to others
Won’t bear to critical examination.
Stay unassuming. If for lack of license
To wear the uniform of who you are,
You should be tempted to make up for it
In a subordinating look or toe,
Beware of coming too much to the surface
And using for apparel what was meant
To be the curtain of the inmost soul.
- Robert Frost
Night among the ‘Alawiyya - The Wandering Troubadour
Night among the ‘Alawiyya
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
I came to your perfumed garden,
Your wandering cousin of Hashimi.
You took me in a full embrace.
Sweet love burned between you and me.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
We poured our hearts into the air,
Loosed all chains, and set them free.
You took me and lowered my hood
And pure love was all I could see.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
In your tender gaze, I was a
Virgin bride unveiled and ready.
We shared more than words understood.
Words danced in speechless ecstasy.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Hand-in-hand and hand-in-sleeve
We danced and roared our love fully.
With your eyes you pointed our hearts,
Your breath was ours, a living sea.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Wave upon wave pounded until
No cruel shore could resist our plea.
Allah. Allah. Allah, Sidi!
This port of love was destiny.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
It's that special time of year...Mawlid Season!

Thursday, February 19, 2009
Ottawa / Montreal Dhikrs?
Does anyone know of any dhikrs in Ottawa or Montreal?
Please reply here or email me at salikah@hotmail.com
Shukran!
Monday, February 16, 2009
SeekersGuidance Spring 2009!
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Wassalam.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Toronto Suhba with Shaykh Nuh Keller: February 26th-March 1st
Toronto Suhba 2009 with Shaykh Nuh Keller
Speaker Bio: http://shadhilitariqa.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3
Dates: Thursday February 26, 2009 to Sunday March 1, 2009
Location:
Islamic Society of York Region (Stouffville Masjid)1380 Stouffville Road Richmond Hill, Ontario
Registration and further info: www.torontosuhba.com
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Monthly Mawlid at Risalah - Sunday February 1st, 2009
Burda Sharif & Dala'il al-Khayrat

Dalail al-Khairat is the famous collection of litanies sending blessings and peace upon the Prophet Muhammed (S), authored by the great scholar and Gnostic Imam abi-AbdilLah Muhammad bin Sulaiman al-Jazuli (RA) The majlis will include recitations of The Holy Quran, the Dala'il text and a reading of the renowned ode of praise to the Prophet (S), Qasida al- Burda of Imam al-Busairi. In addition, the majlis often includes readings from the grand compositions of various Awliya and Imams of Islamic tradition.
Risalah Foundation will endeavour to hold this gathering on the first Sunday of every month, insha Allah. You can find details on our website, http://www.risalah.ca/burda.php.
Monday, January 19, 2009
Love Post-Hadra
So many shoulders to lean on.
So many to share in our happiness.
...So many that love us ever so sincerely.
But why? What does it mean?
Perhaps it is that Allah's Love, so Intensely Powerful and Strong, in its Purest form, is a Love that we cannot bare -- one by which, enraptured, we would cease to live.
Perhaps this is why our Loving Lord has put these people in our lives. The warm smiles of loved ones and passing strangers. The counsel and support of shoulders we lean on. The joy-lit eyes of well-wishers. The love in all forms, shapes, sizes, and means.
Perhaps this is the way by which Allah lets the Rays of His Loving Light come to us in a way that we can bare.
They are His Smiles, His Support, His Joy...His Love. Glory be to Him.
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
One of the Greatest Afflictions of Our Ummah
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
The Human Heart and Gaza
It is indeed sad that the offspring of those who suffered, can inflict such horror on others.
BBC Story on the hospital in Gaza
Saturday, January 03, 2009
The Koran is like a Bride - Mawlana Rumi
Translated in William Chittick, The Sufi Path of Love: The Spiritual Teachings of Rumi (Albany: State University of New York Press, 1983), 273.
Friday, January 02, 2009
Shaykh Habib Umar bin Hafiz - A Message for the New Year
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The following is summarised from a talk given by Habib Umar bin Hafiz (Allah preserve him):
[1] We bid farewell to a another year of the Hijra of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace), a year which contains a number of days and nights which are what makes up your lifespan. If a day passes then a part of you has passed. You are but a body and spirit existent in a limited time period. When that period comes to an end you come to an end. It is only those of sound intellect who realise the true value of these days and nights that pass. They know that it is He Who made the Night and the Day to follow each other: for the one who wishes to reflect or to show gratitude.
[2]Whatever anyone has achieved throughout the days and nights that has not increased them in reflection and gratitude has missed the purpose and fundamental wisdom for which these days and nights were created and for which mankind was created. We witness the passing of time and the alternation of seasons and changes and events. Things which are agreeable to us; things which are unpleasant – all of which test us. We witness the passing away of those who live alongside, some of it expected, some of it unexpected. All of this is by the decree of the All-Powerful Sovereign. We welcome likewise a new year. Every individual must look at their level of reflection and gratitude so they may obtain their provision from these days and nights. Amongst the meanings of reflection is removing the veils from the spirit to remember the original covenant which it took with its Lord and clearing away the dust to extend its gaze to its eventual destination. As for gratitude, everything which is of any benefit to creation comes into its sphere. The Master of Creation said (may Allah bless him and grant him peace), “Should I not be a grateful slave?” and he is the most grateful of creation to the Creator, and through his gratitude we show gratitude to the Creator. May Allah bind us to him in this life and the next. It is He Who made the Night and the Day to follow each other: for the one who wishes to reflect or to show gratitude . What are the signs and the attributes of the people of reflection and gratitude? Read the eleven attributes that follow this verse, beginning with: And the slaves of the Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, "Peace!" Those who spend the night in worship of their Lord prostrate and standing
[3] Reflect upon these attributes and ask yourself what portion you have of them. Do not be content merely to pass over them superficially. Delve into them deeply, hold firm to them and actualise their meanings. Each of these attributes has a residing place in your inner being. If each attribute finds its place you will, in your inner being, be one of the slaves of the Most Gracious and every day and night you will increase in reflection and gratitude, and He will prepare you for an indescribable reward. “I have prepared for my righteous slaves that which no eye has seen, no ear has heard, and what no man can imagine.” The majority of the people of Islam and Iman have made no preparation for the vision of the face of the Best of Mankind, accompanying him on the day of Crowding and then in Dar al-Salam, the Abode of Peace. Does this warrant you giving anything less than your all? How much have you put towards this: of your thoughts, your actions, the attributes of your heart, of the hours of your day and night? After the death of the Messenger of Allah Sayyiduna al-Siddiq would spend his nights crying out of his longing for him. Do we allow the ups and downs of this fleeting life and the desires of our enemies to tear these feelings away from us? Will you exchange the better for the worse? All you who believe, accompanying him is greater than anything we can imagine. There is no gift more exquisite that the Lord of the Throne may bless you with than his companionship and the vision of his face and addressing the possessor of that face. He is a man like no other, the Beloved of the Creator. If these feelings were alive in the hearts of the Umma all causes of evil inward and outward would be blocked and the Umma would be safe from every tribulation. The level of tribulation in which we find ourselves is according to our deficiency in our love for Allah and His Chosen One. At the end of this year may Allah grant us the ability to please His Beloved through seeking to improve our states and our transactions and what takes places in our houses and what is in our hearts. Nothing should be more beloved to us than Allah and nothing in creation, not even Paradise, should be more beloved to us than Muhammad. No created thing can take precedence over Muhammad, because Allah Himself gave him precedence over all of creation.
For this reason the Companion Salama ibn Rabi`a could think of nothing better to ask from the Messenger of Allah than his companionship in Paradise. The response of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was to order him to make abundant prostration. The closest a slave is to Allah is when he is in prostration. If you desire to be close to the one who is closest to Allah make abundant prostration. One of the meanings of this prostration is to rid our houses of anything which is contravenes his Sunna, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Let this Hijri year finish and with it any contravention of the Sunna. This is prostration. You want to accompany him but you don’t want to live in accordance with his teaching? Let this year finish and you are in a state of preparation to meet the best of Allah’s slaves.
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[1] Jalsat al-Ithnayn, Jami` Tarim, the night of 25th Dhu’l-Hijja 1429
[2] Sura al-Furqan, 25.62
[3] Sura al-Furqan, 25.63-74
Monday, December 29, 2008
RIS
Alhamdulillah, the convention was nice...saw lots of people I hadn't seen in a while as well as those I'm blessed to see regularly.
Insha'Allah, more on RIS after the retreat is over.
Allah Ma'ak.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Shaykh Ramzy on Forgiveness and Madinah
I was looking through my notebook during the break in Shaykh Faraz's halaqa last week and started reading through previous notes I'd taken. I came across many beautiful words from our teachers and journal entries from Hajj.
On our second night in Madinah, once the entire group had arrived, Shaykh Ramzy gathered us all in the lobby of our hotel and gave us some advice. He spoke of forgiving one another for what happened in the past and what for what will come (especially given the intimate nature of the pilgrimage) -- in the city of our Noble Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace), we should intend to forgive, as this is his sunnah. Allah pardons and loves those who pardon. We expect Allah to forgive us and yet cannot find it in our hearts to forgive others -- if we do not forgive, our hearts will have something in them that will interfere in receiving the forgiveness of Allah.
The Messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace) has the greatest heart for forgiveness -- on the yawm al-hashr, all Prophets (upon them be peace) will say, "this affair is not for me", but he (Allah bless him and give him peace) will say, "this is for me" and will not rest until each Muslim is forgiven -- and then he will ask for the pardon of other communities, Allah bless him and give him peace.
About Madinah, the blessed companion, 'Umar said, it is the holiest place on earth, and 'Uthman agreed with him (Allah be well-pleased with them both).
The soil mixes with his blessed living body, he hears each and every salam and responds, and Allah sends His salam on each person ten times.
As we watch what we eat and purchase despite knowing the waste they will eventually end up in, we should watch what goes in our hearts, for the heart and its deeds live on in the grave.
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This last note that Shaykh Ramzy made is, I believe, of utmost importance. Far too often we neglect to realize, or we brush off, the impact of what we expose our senses to. I remember years ago Shaykh Abdallah Adhami said that whatever our ears and eyes and limbs are exposed to lives on in us forever -- he cautioned us to pay heed to what words we listen to and what scenes we watch. How many conversations to we expose our ears and soul to that our full of backbiting, tale-baring, vulgarities? How many lyrics and sounds to we listen to that perturb the heart and throw us into heedlessness? How many violent, vulgar scenes do we see, even for a split second on television and in movies, thinking we're unscathed, but they live on in the recesses of our hearts forever?
Food for thought.
Love is All You Need
Strengthening Communal Ties
Wednesday, December 24th, 6.30 to 9 pm
Imam Zaid Shakir
Shaykh Jawad Qureshi (Chicago)
Shaykh Omar Qureshi (Chicago)
Shaykh Zahir Bacchus
Shaykh Ramzy Ajem
Shaykh Faraz Rabbani
At the IMO (International Muslim Organization)
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Sunday, December 21, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Fatiha
AsSalamu'alaykum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuhu,
Verily, from Allah we came and to Him we are returning.
My mother's last surviving uncle -- my grandfather's brother, passed away a few days ago in Lahore, Pakistan. He was a righteous man in his mid-eighties, and I have fond memories from when I spent time with him as a young girl.
Please make fatiha for him. May Allah have mercy on Him, make easy the trials of the grave and the next world, and make his union with Him, one of intense sweetness. May we be united in Jannah. Ameen.
Wassalam,
Salikah
Monday, December 15, 2008
Welcome Back, Hujjaj!
Insha'Allah, this is the week that many of our dear brothers and sisters who embarked on the noble journey of hajj are to return home to us.
Hajj Mabrur, insha'Allah!
In honour of the hujjaj, the monthly Burda and Dala'il Reading at Risalah will be taking place this Sunday Decemeber 21st, 2008 from 11am-1pm.

Please join us in welcoming back the hujjaj!
Wassalam,
Salikah
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
And which of your Lord's bounties, will you and you deny?
This earth. Was it created so that we might sin upon it?
The sky. Was it created to watch our heedlessness?
How often have we gone about disobedience of our Lord and not once thought to how we have offended the nature that surrounds us?
How often have we neglected to think how are sinful acts, words, deeds must make the purity of trees, leaves, flowers, the sky, the earth...all cringe at our pitiful state?
How often have we not thought how nature must weep that its destiny was so poor as to be made witness to egos engulfed in sin?
Indeed we are taught that the trees lay in wait of someone to pass them who is in the remembrance of Allah so they may boast to the other trees of the good that they have been made witness to. And so do we not pause to reflect on what shame they must feel when not only is such a person absent, but in their place passes a person who is in opposition to the command of Allah?
On that Day, those trees, those leaves and flowers, that sky, that earth...all will be given a voice and all will cry out to their Lord as witnesses against us for having sinned near, below, or upon them. Pay heed, dear brothers and sisters. Pay heed.
We should not let time pass us by, we should not neglect a moment of life that Allah bestows upon us, but that we retrace those sinful steps, and in each place of disobedience, return in an act of obedience and penitence, seeking Allah's forgiveness and that of each witness. We must humble ourselves. We must weep. We must beg our Lord that He write us from amongst those who were penitent and remembered Him. We must beseech our witnesses to remember only the good that we did before them, and not the evil.
How Merciful is Allah, that not only did He not take us in such a filthy state, but that He gave us life. Life to repent. Life to learn. Life to return to that very place, a person transformed, a person realized, a person aware.
And which of your Lord's bounties, will you and you deny?
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Welcome, Dhul Hijjah!
Today marks the start of Dhul Hijjah!
Subhan'Allah, last year at this time Salik and I were in the most blessed lands on earth. This year as the hujjaj leave -- including Shaykh Ramzy and Shaykh Zahid who were with us, in addition to Shaykh Abdallah who is joining them this year! -- my heart really isn't here right now...it seems to have run off with them. Before they left I asked them to remember us there, as bits of my heart are spread throughout the mubarak lands to which Allah has returned them. May Allah bless their journey and that of all of the hujjaj. Hajj Mabrur insha'Allah.
We must however, remember that even if we aren't able to be in those luminous lands, we should nevertheless, pay heed to the days that are upon us and honour them.
Some advice on what to do the first ten days of Dhul Hijjah from Shaykh Faraz.
Please remember us in your prayers these blessed days.
May He Most High, return us to the sacred sanctuaries again. Ameen.
Wassalam,
Salikah
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Shaykh Abdallah al-Haddad on the Signs of Allah's Love Upon One...
AsSalamu'alaykum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuhu,
The past three weeks we have been blessed in Toronto with the luminous company of our noble teacher, Shaykh Abdallah al-Haddad of Fez. Prior to his arrival, a dear sister of mine said "get ready to fall in love!" Shaykh came and enveloped us with his love and mercy, and a man we little knew before his arrival has become over the course of a few weeks the most beloved to our hearts. Indeed, we fell in love with his loving smile, his sweet words, his care and concern. Seeing one of our elders, a wali of Allah, a descendant of the Noblest Messenger Sayyidina Muhammad (salla Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam), a Shaykh, a manfull of humility, give of his time and self completely to the fuqara',has been inspirational.
As he parts us to make hajj before returning home to his family in Fez, we thank Allah for having blessed us with his company and we pray that Allah bless his every moment, make easy his hajj and travels, return him safely to his family, grant him ease, and unite us once more.
Below are some notes I took at the Sunday night dars with Shaykh, where he spoke of the signs of Allah's love upon one.
May Allah love and bless you all. Please pray for Shaykh and those left saddened by his departure.
Wassalam,
Salikah
Hadith:
"I declare war upon anyone who shows enmity towards My friends.... My servant continues to draw close to Me through supererogatory works until I love him. And when I love him, I am his hearing through which he hears, his eyes through which he sees, and his foot upon which he walks."
Three things have been hidden in three:
1) Allah's dispeasure is hidden in disobedience of Him.
- Therefore, do not underestimate even what you deem to be the smallest sin because it could be that Allah takes your life at a moment in which you die in a state of sin. It is said in a hadith that a man may do the actions of the people of Paradise unti there remains between him and Paradise an arm-span. Then the decree will catch up with him and he will do the actions of the people of Hell and will be placed therein. Likewise a man may do the actions of the people of Hell unti there remains between him and Hell an arm-span. Then the decree will catch up with him and he will do the actions of the people of Paradise and will be placed therein.
- Do not underestimate small sins because a large bonfire starts as asmall flame.
2) Allah's pleasure is hidden in obedience of Him.
- Therefore do not belittle any religious act, even the removal of a banana peel from the road, for that could save somebody else a lot of hardship (i.e., if the peel were not removed, they could fall, get hurt, etc.)
- Superogatory works are never equal to obligatory works. Both are a means of drawing closer to Allah. Also, we often leave an easy means of benefit for an action which requires much work and no benefit at all. For instance, commiting adultery and drinking alcohol are mandatory to avoid and you are rewarded simply by not doing anything, whereas doing them requires time, effort, and money.
- Rewards/punishments are eternal except for the one who sincerely repents.
3) Allah's awliya' are hidden amongst the people.
- A hadith speaks of dishevelled one whose du'as are accepted because he is hidden and goes unnoticed. Allah loves the pure and pious whose name nobody knows when they walk in and whom nobody misses when they are not present. Therefore, never disdain any of the creation because you don't know who the awliya' are. You cannot create something better, so do not despise the creation of Allah, lest Allah declares war upon you.
- Do not mock, backbite, or speak ill of anyone.
- Do not wink and laugh with your friends at others because Allah says in the Qur'an that the disbelievers do this to the believers when they see them pass by.
Nafilah (superogatory) works of the limbs:
- Eyes lowered, heart cleansed of ailments, ears from bad language/sounds, lead to external and inner purity. When this happens, a person's system changes and Allah becomes, as the hadith says, the eyes with which they see, the hearing with which they hear, the foot upon which they walk. In such a state, resulting from leaving what has been forbidden, such a person becomes as if controlled by a satellite: he can communicate with Allah as he likes, and He with him.
- When Allah loves a person He tells Jibril, "I love so and so, so love him." Jibril then tells the angels, "Allah loves so and so, so love him" until he is loved by the people.
*Be persistent in du'a and prayers of the heart.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Baba Bullay Shah and the Charlatan's Lota
*Lota (Urdu/Punjabi): watering jug used for cleansing in the washroom.
Yup, that's a real Punjabi saint...wisdom with a sense of humour! : )
Filth
A good reminder to those of us with mild symptoms of OCD : )
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Obama Wins!
Saturday, November 01, 2008
Monday, October 27, 2008
Pink Hijab Day - Oct. 29
Muslim women across the world will be wearing a Pink Hijab or headscarf, to raise awareness for breast cancer and show their solidarity with those who are battling this disease.
So, girls, remember to wear your pink hijabs!
Addendum: I decided to try "Pink Hijab Day" at work (I teach high school). Alhamdulillah, it went well...for practical purposes I extended it to wearing anything pink...but one teacher asked to wear hijab and she kept it on all day, and another man wore one around his neck as as a scarf...tonnes of teachers and students came out in pink and we did a homeroom collection of donations for the Canadian Cancer Society. Overall, it was quite fun -- good dawah, good cause.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
In the agony suffered for You...
the wounded find the scent of balm:
The memory of you consoles the souls of lovers.
Thousands in every corner, seeking a glimpse of You,
cry out like Moses, "Lord, show me Yourself!"
I see thousands of lovers lost in a desert of grief,
wandering aimlessly and saying hopefully,
"O God! O God!"
I see breasts scorched by the burning of separation from You;
I see eyes weeping in love's agony.
Dancing down the lane of blame and censure,
your lovers cry out, "Poverty is my source of pride!"
Pir-i Ansar has quaffed the wine of longing:
Like Majnun he wanders drunk and perplexed
through the world.
- Abd Allah Ansari's introduction to the Munajat


