
One who does not, is not a friend of yours."
A place to share things of benefit to Seekers as we travel through this world. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: "What have I to do with this world? There is no comparison between me and this world, except to a rider who stops for shade under a tree and then goes on leaving it behind."
The deceitful character of the world comes out in the following ways. In the first place, it pretends that it will always remain with you, while, as a matter of fact, it is slipping away from you, moment by moment, and bidding you farewell, like a shadow which seems stationary, but is actually always moving. Again, the world presents itself under the guise of a radiant but immoral sorceress, pretends to be in love with you, fondles you, and then goes off to your enemies, leaving you to die of chagrin and despair. Jesus (upon whom be peace!) saw the world revealed in the form of an ugly old hag. He asked her how many husbands she had possessed; she replied that they were countless. He asked whether they had died or been divorced; she said that she had slain them all. "I marvel", he said, "at the fools who see, what you have done to others, and still desire you."
This sorceress decks herself out in gorgeous and jewelled apparel and veils her face. Then she goes forth to seduce men, too many of whom follow her to their own destruction. The Prophet has said that in the Judgment Day the world will appear in the form of a hideous witch with green eyes and projecting teeth. Men, beholding her, will say, "Mercy on us! who is this?" The angels will answer, "This is the world for whose sake you quarrelled and fought and embittered one another's lives." Then she will be cast into hell, whence she will cry out, "O Lord! where are those, my former lovers?" God will then command that they be cast after her.
- Imam Abu Hamid al-Ghazali, The Alchemy of Happiness
The Prophet (Peace and Blessings upon him) said ” seize the opportunity to make use of five things before five other things catch up with you:
1. Your youth before you grow old
2. Your health before you fall sick
3. Your leisure before you are occupied
4. Your wealth before you grow poor
5. And your life before you die.
And he said(Upon him be blessings and peace) “The feet of a servant will not move away from where he stands on the day of rising until he is asked about five things: his life, and how expended it, his youth, and in what he exhausted it, his wealth, and where he obtained it, and on what he spent it, etc”
Accept none other for thy love but God.
All things apart from Him are pure illusion.
Here is my counsel, if thou canst counsel take.
The rememberers are ever absent in their Beloved,
For none have life save those who are near to Him.
Between such and the Truth there is no veil.
What are the Blessings of Paradise to them?
Passion God's slaves hath melted; they have drunk,
And still drink, His eternal-treasured Wine,
The draught whereof hath robbed them of themselves.
Would thou couldst take one sip out of their cup!
'Twould help to bridge the gap twixt thee and me.
A good slave he who saith: 'I am at Thy service,'
Hearing God's Call which I address to him.
If God thou seekest, then companion me:
For thee, be very sure, there is no way else.
Abu Nu`aym relates in Hilyat al-Awliya [8.74], with his chain of transmission to Rabah ibn al-Harawi:
Isam asked him, “How do you pray?”
Hatim responded,
I fulfill the Divine Command;
I walk with reverent awe;
I enter the prayer with intention;
I give the opening takbir with magnification of Allah;
I recite the Qur’an in a distinct and measured recitation, with reflection;
I bow with reverence;
I prostrate with humility;
I sit for the tashahhud completely;
I give salams according to the proper way and sunna.
Isam said, “You can teach, for you indeed pray well.”
And Allah alone gives success.
Translated by Faraz Rabbani
Of the Virtue of Continence
From pleasures and amusements he refrained,
His appetite for love and liquor reined,
Devoted not his energies to wine,
To hunt gazelles made not his only line.
For it was time the heart arose from sleep,
Not evermore its shrouding veil to keep;
The fearful day that shall all secrets prove
Diverted him from his accustomed love.
Be strong, my soul ! Thy labours do not spend
Pursuing passion to its bitter end.
Make haste to thy salvation ; purpose still
To win deliverance from passion's ill.
Perchance, triumphant in my holiest aim,
I shall escape the torment and the flame.
O trifler, Fate is grimly purposing
Thy ruin: dread'st thou not misfortune's sting?
It should suffice thee, for all counsel taught,
To look upon the wonders Time has wrought.
Leave that abode whose splendour soon must fade,
That task which ever with the toiler played,
That jousting-yard where never knight struck blow
But that his sword rebounded to his woe;
What man knows Allah as He should be known
Withdraws, and lives unto Himself alone.
Not one is watered piety with pure,
The temporal realm with that which doth endure;
Not like the sinner and the godly wise,
The word of truth and circumstantial lies.
For though we were secure from chastisement
Nor feared the wrath of God may not relent,
Did we not dread that hell, prepared for each
Who perpetrates the crime of lying speech,
Yet would it be our duty to obey
His will, and send lust's embassy away,
Sincerely to renounce this life below,
Condemning all who yet delay to go.
For we have witnessed how Time serves her own
Like flaming sparks among the brushwood blown;
Some wearying their hearts to serve the Lord
And find repose in what they most abhorred,
Some labouring to gather this world's bloom
And be diverted from their quest by doom.
And some have reached the hope they fondly nursed
To fall into the pit they dreaded worst,
And some have diligently sought their goal
And only gained destruction of the soul.
Anon some mighty monarch thou wilt see
Flung down from triumph into misery,
As springing wheat is trampled into dust
When from its stalk the swelling ears upthrust.
How many struggle to their souls' despite
In chase of luck that presses more its flight
Surely a lesson wonderful is there
To school the wise to wisdom yet more fair!
Still more, with Hell the ultimate abode
Of all who leave the straight and narrow road,
When Allah, on the day of reckoning,
Their shameful secrets to the light shall bring.
What then of him, whom Allah has pursued
With mercy, and augmenting grace renewed,
But in his folly turns the gifts conferred
To purposes forbidden by God's Word?
Deserves he not the most, of all men born,
God's chastisement on resurrection's morn?
Then thank the Lord, Whose gracious potency
Is nigh to us as our heart's artery,
Who feedeth all the peoples known to Time,
Be Barbary or Arabia their clime
Praise be to God, Whose bounty is so great,
Who overmasters all the tricks of Fate,
And to our service earth and heaven turns,
All vapours of the air, each star that burns.
Give ear, and leave the sinner to his sin
For none shall bear but what he gathers in.
- Abû Muhammad ‘Ali ibn Hazm, Tawq al-Hamâmah (Ring of the Dove)
Our bodies house our hearts and our souls, and it is by these that we know God, and thus they are our most prized possessions. The Prophet Muhammad (God bless him and give him peace) said, “there is a part of the body that, if sound, the entire body is sound” and he pointed to the heart. God says in a sacred Muslim tradition, “the heavens and the earth do not contain Me, but the heart of the believer does contain Me”. What we do with our physical being inevitably impacts our heart and soul, our very core. Thus, what we listen to, what we look at, what we do with our limbs all infringe upon our heart. If these are good, pure things, they act as a polish on the mirror that is the heart, if they are evil impurities, they act as a rust on that mirror and blur our vision of what is Real and Sublime. Indeed, as the famous Muslim mystical poet Rumi says:
The mirror does not reflect. How is this so?
Do you know why the mirror does not reflect anything?
Because the rust has not been cleansed from its face.
Watch out! Again--watch out! Be careful not to let anything distract you from your Lord since there is nothing in reality except Allah. "Allah was and nothing was with Him. His is now as He was." Know that when a man has need of something, that is because of his ignorance and lack of knowledge, Had it not been for his ignorance, he would not need anything except Allah. The Immense Qur'an and the Prophetic hadith both testify to this. Listen to the answer of the wali of Allah-ta'ala, Sayyidi Sahl at-Tustary, may Allah be pleased with him! to one of his murids when he said to him, "Master--food!" He told him, "Allah." The murid was silent awhile and then said, "We must have food." He told him, "We must have Allah." I said, by Allah, in reality, we and others have no need except Allah. If we are His, He is ours as in the past with others--He was theirs and they were His.
I also advise you always to keep together and remind each other in your Path throughout your entire lifetime as those before you have done. Watch out! Again--watch out! Be careful not to hasten opening as some of you and others seek to hasten it. By doing that, you will miss the excellence of the Path and its blessing, secret, baraka, and bliss because whoever wants to pluck something before it is permitted to him, is deprived of it as a result. It is absolutely necessary that you keep together and respect each other. You should honour each other and show esteem for each other. Fulfill the contract of Allah when you make a contract. Love each other and show affection to each other as the Prophet said, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Be on your guard against being foolish and insolent, against treachery, dishonesty, or leaving the Path. Allah gives success.
Know that concern for a thing is great. We and you have no concern except for Allah's favour to us. The rajul is the one who does not lack strength, is not lazy and does not slacken off. He fights his self. He gives it a little of the things which it hates and are heavy for it until it is annihilated. "Annihilation is obliteration, disappearance, leaving yourself, extinction" as the wali of Allah ta'ala, Sayyidi Abu'l Mawahib at-Tunisi, may Allah be pleased with him, said in his Qawanin.
Peace
-The Darqawi Way; The Letters of Shaykh Mawlay al-'Arabi ad-Darqawi
It is none other than the whitened heart which is like snow.
Mawlana Rumi
LET me not to the marriage of true minds | |
Admit impediments. Love is not love | |
Which alters when it alteration finds, | |
Or bends with the remover to remove: | |
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark, | 5 |
That looks on tempests and is never shaken; | |
It is the star to every wandering bark, | |
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken. | |
Love ’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks | |
Within his bending sickle’s compass come; | 10 |
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, | |
But bears it out even to the edge of doom. | |
If this be error, and upon me prov’d, | |
I never writ, nor no man ever lov’d. |
"When Mu‘adh asked Rasool Allah (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) “will we be held accountable even for the words we utter here and there?”, Rasool Allah (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) replied, “Oh Mu’adh may your mother mourn you! (i.e. something bad is coming, if you don’t understand this…you’re dead!) – What else, but the harvest of the tongue causes most people to be dragged on their faces into the Fire of Hell!”, and Allah tells us, “every word uttered is recorded by the angels”. Yet what is the ni‘mah we use most? – It is the tongue, and one ‘aalim said that if we used our other senses as much as we use our tongue, they would collapse with fatigue! However, in this natural order that Allah has created, He has indicated things to some of the believers who have some hikmah (wisdom) left, such that one ‘aalim said, Allah created the tongue and He created two gates before you get to the tongue (teeth and lips), remember Allah does not create in vain, every creation has wisdoms in it. Abu Dardah (RadiyAllahu ‘Anhu) is related to have said “do justice to your ears, for you were given two ears and one tongue in order that you listen/hear more than you speak”. A wise man once said, “my tongue is like a scorpion, if I let it go, it will begin by biting me”. Every word we utter is most likely a poisonous bite that we’ll have to reckon with on the Day of Judgment. Yet the desire to speak is so intense because the nafs inside is at a lower state. One great ‘aalim was asked by a serious student of great akhlaaq “when shall I speak?”, he answered, “when you have the urge to speak, keep quiet and when you have the urge to keep quiet, you may speak”. Rasool Allah (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) with his exalted state of khuluq used to have prolonged intervals of silence, and when he spoke, he spoke gems, diamonds, and pearls. He (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said, “whosoever has imaan (faith) in Allah and the Day of Judgment let him speak a word of khayr or remain silent” – what is khayr? It is that which helps us in our journey to Allah and the purpose for which we were created, it is not relative to our nafs nor to relativist morals, anything that does not help us fulfill the purpose for which we were created, is logically not beneficial. The tongue, my dear brothers and sisters is the most used key by Shaytaan to enter the qalb and occupy it – backbiting, sewing the seeds of hatred, ridiculing, making fun of people, lying, conspiring with words, and these days we actually have ‘talk’ shows where people get paid tonnes of money to lie and ridicule others and it’s called civilized entertainment. By Allah! - We will be asked for every word we utter! And those whom Allah exalted in knowledge and practice of that knowledge, kept their tongues jailed. Thus said one of them (Rahimahullah), “there is nothing worthier of long sentences of jail than the tongue”, but remember, the nafs in that lower state feeds the desire to speak and to speak that which is not beneficial to the ultimate purpose for which we were created."
Allah clearly mentions in the Qur’an:
‘Woe to whoever disparages others behind their back or to their face’
(Koran 104:1)
The superb debut album from
Talib al-Habib
nur al-habib productions presents
Eight original English language nasheeds
about love of Allah, His Prophet (salallahu 'alayhi wassalam), one’s teacher,
one’s family and all of mankind.
“Inspired. A symphony”
“Definitely the Nasheed Album of the year”
- Aashiq al-Rasul
“I feel I have known [these songs] all my life”
- Dawud Wharnsby Ali
“transports you to another spiritual level”
“the meaning of the lyrics stay with you long after the music ends.”
The Munshid is also an author, masha'Allah.