A place to share things of benefit to Seekers as we travel through this world. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: "What have I to do with this world? There is no comparison between me and this world, except to a rider who stops for shade under a tree and then goes on leaving it behind."
Saturday, November 07, 2009
Physical and spiritual well-being...a sign of the times...
Sound like a Muslim? Actually, that came from our school public health nurse, who isn't Muslim.
More and more, I hear non-Muslims talking about feeling uncomfortable shaking hands because they are worried about catching the swine flu. So they decline shaking hands, and nobody really flinches -- in fact, they likely feel relieved.
Interesting that when it pertains to our physical well-being, nobody seems to mind, but when it has a spiritual basis, people are "offended". So it isn't really the refusal to shake hands that offends people, it's the impetus. All of this bespeaks the times we live in -- people are ever so concerned that their bodies, their external be healthy and well, but they criticize and ridicule those who have such concerns about their spiritual, or internal health.
How open-minded are we as a society -- really?
Food for thought.
Monday, October 05, 2009
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
The Ways: Abu Hasan al-Shadhili
Shaykh Abū’l-’Abbās Ahmad Zarrūq, commenting on this, said,
Friday, August 14, 2009
Unrequited Love and Shifa…(Kuhlsnotes)
Shaykh Hamza told one of the most beautiful stories on love and unrequited love during the RIS Knowledge Retreat last winter in Toronto, Canada:
“… she also was very generous – Bareerah was a woman that she purchased and then set free, and the famous story about Bareerah was that she was married to someone named Mugheeth. If two slaves were married and then the woman get freed, then she can leave/divorce her husband if she wants to because now she’s free and the husband is not, so there is no parity.
So Bareerah wanted to leave Mugheeth, but Mugheeth loved her. He went into total distress,
and he literally was walking behind her around Madina begging her (to take him back).
Abbas (Rd.) was with the Prophet (saw) one day and the Prophet (saw) saw Bareerah and he said: “Isn’t it strange how much Mugheeth loves Bareerah and how much Bareerah dislikes Mugheeth?”
And the Ulema say when the Prophet (saw) said “Isn’t it strange”, the Arabs use the word “strange” only when the means/cause (sabaab, lit. ‘door’) of/to something is unknown, and that there is no need for something to be called “strange” if the cause is known.
So the Prophet (saw) was calling him to the point the strangeness of love. Love is very strange.
Why do people fall in love?
Why our hearts are attracted to some people and not other people?
Why love is sometime unrequited (returned)?
Because the worst type of love is unrequited love: when you love somebody and they don’t love you – there is nothing worst than that in the world. And obviously the worst type of unrequited love is with God. That’s why Abu Hasan as-Shadali (teacher of Ibn Ata Askandari) use to say:
“Oh God, make my wrong actions, the wrong actions of people whom You Love,
and don’t make my good actions, the good actions of people whom You do not Love.”
In other words – I would rather have wrong actions and be someone who You Love, than have good actions and be someone who You don’t Love.
So the Prophet (saw) went to Bareerah, who was the free slave of ‘Aisha, and he said: “Won’t you reconsider Mugheeth?” And she said: “are you telling me to do this, because if you tell me, then i have to do it.” He (saw) replied: “I am only interceding on his behalf”
And that’s his Shifa, he finds it difficult things you find difficult. The Prophet (saw) saw M suffering and he wanted to help him. That shows you his ’shafiqa’, even in love he wanted to help this poor man who was suffering from the loss of his love.
So when the Prophet (saw) replied that he was only interceding, Bareerah replied: “I don’t have any need for him”. So there was something arrogant in her answer, as she was free and he was still a slave – there was something there from her nafs.
Now when Mugheeth saw that Bareerah rejected intercession from the one that even God had given intercession, Mugheeth lost all desire for her – just taken out of his heart. And at that point when he lost all desire for Bareerah, suddenly she fell madly in love with him – like a punishment for rejecting the intercession of the Prophet (saw) – he did not want anything to do with her, yet she was now begging him to take her back now!… “
Sunday, August 02, 2009
If the veils were lifted...
Thursday, July 30, 2009
The Falls and the Spiritual Path
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Deafness and Blindness on the Path
"He who does not have a little deafness in his ear and a little blindness in his eye, cannot travel with us on this Path".
Allah!
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Houses: A Reflection of the State of our Hearts
She went on to talk about how our hearts are so diseased that rather than being happy at the good fortune of others, we are envious and think the worst of how they acquired what they have.
Subhan'Allah. As Shaykh Mokhtar said, "Allah puts wisdom on the tongue of whomsoever He wishes".
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
On the "Why" of Sufis: A Reflection
Monday, May 11, 2009
The Subtle Nafs...
Allahu Akbar.
Monday, May 04, 2009
Monday, April 06, 2009
Seven Questions - Shams-i Tabrizi
- From Me & Rumi: The Autobiography of Shams-i Tabrizi. Trans. W. C. Chittick (Louisville: Fons Vitae, 2004), 51.
Friday, April 03, 2009
Lost Generation & the Obama Song
Monday, March 23, 2009
Thoughts on the solar anniversary of my entry into this world...
How many a blessing that Merciful Lord has bestowed on this unworthy servant? How many a second chance has He provided? How much Love has He poured forth out of nothing, but His Pure Bounty and Largess?
Alhamdulillah.
The other day I spoke to my beloved sister on the Path of God and she mentioned that her family celebrates birthdays by getting together and reciting surah waqiyah and singing anasheeds. How mubarak a way of showing gratitude for life! May we all implement this blessed way, and on our birthdays, recite in praise of the Merciful Lord Who has bestowed us with life so that we may draw closer to Him.
Allahu Akbar!
Friday, March 06, 2009
Alhamdulillah, it's almost here...!
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
The Road Not Taken - Robert Frost
Then took the other, as just as fair
And both that morning equally lay
I shall be telling this with a sigh
The Fear of God - Robert Frost
The Fear of God
If you should rise from Nowhere up to Somewhere,
From being No one up to being Someone,
Be sure to keep repeating to yourself
You owe it to an arbitrary god
Whose mercy to you rather than to others
Won’t bear to critical examination.
Stay unassuming. If for lack of license
To wear the uniform of who you are,
You should be tempted to make up for it
In a subordinating look or toe,
Beware of coming too much to the surface
And using for apparel what was meant
To be the curtain of the inmost soul.
- Robert Frost
Night among the ‘Alawiyya - The Wandering Troubadour
Night among the ‘Alawiyya
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
I came to your perfumed garden,
Your wandering cousin of Hashimi.
You took me in a full embrace.
Sweet love burned between you and me.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
We poured our hearts into the air,
Loosed all chains, and set them free.
You took me and lowered my hood
And pure love was all I could see.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
In your tender gaze, I was a
Virgin bride unveiled and ready.
We shared more than words understood.
Words danced in speechless ecstasy.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Hand-in-hand and hand-in-sleeve
We danced and roared our love fully.
With your eyes you pointed our hearts,
Your breath was ours, a living sea.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Wave upon wave pounded until
No cruel shore could resist our plea.
Allah. Allah. Allah, Sidi!
This port of love was destiny.
Paradise is in your company
O brethren hearts of ‘Alawi.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
It's that special time of year...Mawlid Season!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Ottawa / Montreal Dhikrs?
Does anyone know of any dhikrs in Ottawa or Montreal?
Please reply here or email me at salikah@hotmail.com
Shukran!
Monday, February 16, 2009
SeekersGuidance Spring 2009!
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Wassalam.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Toronto Suhba with Shaykh Nuh Keller: February 26th-March 1st
Toronto Suhba 2009 with Shaykh Nuh Keller
Speaker Bio: http://shadhilitariqa.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3
Dates: Thursday February 26, 2009 to Sunday March 1, 2009
Location:
Islamic Society of York Region (Stouffville Masjid)1380 Stouffville Road Richmond Hill, Ontario
Registration and further info: www.torontosuhba.com
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Monthly Mawlid at Risalah - Sunday February 1st, 2009
Burda Sharif & Dala'il al-Khayrat
Dalail al-Khairat is the famous collection of litanies sending blessings and peace upon the Prophet Muhammed (S), authored by the great scholar and Gnostic Imam abi-AbdilLah Muhammad bin Sulaiman al-Jazuli (RA) The majlis will include recitations of The Holy Quran, the Dala'il text and a reading of the renowned ode of praise to the Prophet (S), Qasida al- Burda of Imam al-Busairi. In addition, the majlis often includes readings from the grand compositions of various Awliya and Imams of Islamic tradition.
Risalah Foundation will endeavour to hold this gathering on the first Sunday of every month, insha Allah. You can find details on our website, http://www.risalah.ca/burda.php.
Monday, January 19, 2009
Love Post-Hadra
So many shoulders to lean on.
So many to share in our happiness.
...So many that love us ever so sincerely.
But why? What does it mean?
Perhaps it is that Allah's Love, so Intensely Powerful and Strong, in its Purest form, is a Love that we cannot bare -- one by which, enraptured, we would cease to live.
Perhaps this is why our Loving Lord has put these people in our lives. The warm smiles of loved ones and passing strangers. The counsel and support of shoulders we lean on. The joy-lit eyes of well-wishers. The love in all forms, shapes, sizes, and means.
Perhaps this is the way by which Allah lets the Rays of His Loving Light come to us in a way that we can bare.
They are His Smiles, His Support, His Joy...His Love. Glory be to Him.
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
One of the Greatest Afflictions of Our Ummah
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
The Human Heart and Gaza
It is indeed sad that the offspring of those who suffered, can inflict such horror on others.
BBC Story on the hospital in Gaza
Saturday, January 03, 2009
The Koran is like a Bride - Mawlana Rumi
Translated in William Chittick, The Sufi Path of Love: The Spiritual Teachings of Rumi (Albany: State University of New York Press, 1983), 273.
Friday, January 02, 2009
Shaykh Habib Umar bin Hafiz - A Message for the New Year
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
The following is summarised from a talk given by Habib Umar bin Hafiz (Allah preserve him):
[1] We bid farewell to a another year of the Hijra of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace), a year which contains a number of days and nights which are what makes up your lifespan. If a day passes then a part of you has passed. You are but a body and spirit existent in a limited time period. When that period comes to an end you come to an end. It is only those of sound intellect who realise the true value of these days and nights that pass. They know that it is He Who made the Night and the Day to follow each other: for the one who wishes to reflect or to show gratitude.
[2]Whatever anyone has achieved throughout the days and nights that has not increased them in reflection and gratitude has missed the purpose and fundamental wisdom for which these days and nights were created and for which mankind was created. We witness the passing of time and the alternation of seasons and changes and events. Things which are agreeable to us; things which are unpleasant – all of which test us. We witness the passing away of those who live alongside, some of it expected, some of it unexpected. All of this is by the decree of the All-Powerful Sovereign. We welcome likewise a new year. Every individual must look at their level of reflection and gratitude so they may obtain their provision from these days and nights. Amongst the meanings of reflection is removing the veils from the spirit to remember the original covenant which it took with its Lord and clearing away the dust to extend its gaze to its eventual destination. As for gratitude, everything which is of any benefit to creation comes into its sphere. The Master of Creation said (may Allah bless him and grant him peace), “Should I not be a grateful slave?” and he is the most grateful of creation to the Creator, and through his gratitude we show gratitude to the Creator. May Allah bind us to him in this life and the next. It is He Who made the Night and the Day to follow each other: for the one who wishes to reflect or to show gratitude . What are the signs and the attributes of the people of reflection and gratitude? Read the eleven attributes that follow this verse, beginning with: And the slaves of the Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, "Peace!" Those who spend the night in worship of their Lord prostrate and standing
[3] Reflect upon these attributes and ask yourself what portion you have of them. Do not be content merely to pass over them superficially. Delve into them deeply, hold firm to them and actualise their meanings. Each of these attributes has a residing place in your inner being. If each attribute finds its place you will, in your inner being, be one of the slaves of the Most Gracious and every day and night you will increase in reflection and gratitude, and He will prepare you for an indescribable reward. “I have prepared for my righteous slaves that which no eye has seen, no ear has heard, and what no man can imagine.” The majority of the people of Islam and Iman have made no preparation for the vision of the face of the Best of Mankind, accompanying him on the day of Crowding and then in Dar al-Salam, the Abode of Peace. Does this warrant you giving anything less than your all? How much have you put towards this: of your thoughts, your actions, the attributes of your heart, of the hours of your day and night? After the death of the Messenger of Allah Sayyiduna al-Siddiq would spend his nights crying out of his longing for him. Do we allow the ups and downs of this fleeting life and the desires of our enemies to tear these feelings away from us? Will you exchange the better for the worse? All you who believe, accompanying him is greater than anything we can imagine. There is no gift more exquisite that the Lord of the Throne may bless you with than his companionship and the vision of his face and addressing the possessor of that face. He is a man like no other, the Beloved of the Creator. If these feelings were alive in the hearts of the Umma all causes of evil inward and outward would be blocked and the Umma would be safe from every tribulation. The level of tribulation in which we find ourselves is according to our deficiency in our love for Allah and His Chosen One. At the end of this year may Allah grant us the ability to please His Beloved through seeking to improve our states and our transactions and what takes places in our houses and what is in our hearts. Nothing should be more beloved to us than Allah and nothing in creation, not even Paradise, should be more beloved to us than Muhammad. No created thing can take precedence over Muhammad, because Allah Himself gave him precedence over all of creation.
For this reason the Companion Salama ibn Rabi`a could think of nothing better to ask from the Messenger of Allah than his companionship in Paradise. The response of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was to order him to make abundant prostration. The closest a slave is to Allah is when he is in prostration. If you desire to be close to the one who is closest to Allah make abundant prostration. One of the meanings of this prostration is to rid our houses of anything which is contravenes his Sunna, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Let this Hijri year finish and with it any contravention of the Sunna. This is prostration. You want to accompany him but you don’t want to live in accordance with his teaching? Let this year finish and you are in a state of preparation to meet the best of Allah’s slaves.
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[1] Jalsat al-Ithnayn, Jami` Tarim, the night of 25th Dhu’l-Hijja 1429
[2] Sura al-Furqan, 25.62
[3] Sura al-Furqan, 25.63-74